tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post113346911115007711..comments2024-02-25T18:28:02.771-08:00Comments on Rantings of An 80s Nut: Deepest Darkest RegretMartinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02770200801562699724noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133516166666677222005-12-02T01:36:00.000-08:002005-12-02T01:36:00.000-08:00I want to thank all of you for your thoughts. My ...I want to thank all of you for your thoughts. My original intention of the post was to put it in writing which I had never done. The other reasons were that it is #10, that it becomes searchable online (just for the day he becomes old enough to do an 'ego search') and as a release. As much as it is my deepest darkest regret, it has also been one of those secrets that very few people know and usually don't mention. Thank you all again for your thoughts and kind words. You are very special people.Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02770200801562699724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133500929521717782005-12-01T21:22:00.000-08:002005-12-01T21:22:00.000-08:00Marten: I am speechless.Marten: I am speechless.thchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03670235311851735328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133498392773835492005-12-01T20:39:00.000-08:002005-12-01T20:39:00.000-08:00Martin, This is a sad story on many levels. Cody ...Martin, This is a sad story on many levels. Cody would have been blessed to have you in his life longer. You are a good man, a lot of men would not have married her. I'm sorry it worked out the way it did.Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133483807282854792005-12-01T16:36:00.000-08:002005-12-01T16:36:00.000-08:00Martin, I know it took a lot for you to put your f...Martin, I know it took a lot for you to put your feelings in writing. Take solice in the fact that he will be old enough soon to come and search for his dad. He will know what a great guy you are and want to be part of your life.Terihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13806357337183052816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133482849715170892005-12-01T16:20:00.000-08:002005-12-01T16:20:00.000-08:00Martin, I'm so sorry. I had forgotten the details...Martin, I'm so sorry. I had forgotten the details to this sad, sad ending. Now that I'm a parent myself, I am understanding the distress this must have (and continues to) put you through. I only hope this young man's mother helps him know his father when he's ready to know and has questions. It was very brave and hopefully therapeutic to put this out here.LoraLoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06250173105971467371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133481981596107712005-12-01T16:06:00.000-08:002005-12-01T16:06:00.000-08:00Wow, Martin, that's heartwarming and heartbreaking...Wow, Martin, that's heartwarming and heartbreaking all in the same post. Just writing this must have been very difficult.<BR/><BR/>I can't possibly understand what you went through and may still be going through. It’s got to be intensely personal. It would be very difficult for me to not know one way or another if Cody was my child. But, you’re doing what’s right for you, and I hope someday you run into him. You never know.<BR/><BR/>Happy Birthday, Cody.Fredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12380165835261203465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133480606007334082005-12-01T15:43:00.000-08:002005-12-01T15:43:00.000-08:00aw..i am so sorry sweetie..it must be so painful f...aw..i am so sorry sweetie..it must be so painful for you. My son goes thru the same thing every year on his daughters birthday..basically the same situation as yours. your not alone but I know thats not a comfort to you at this time. Please know that you are in my thoughts today.<BR/><BR/>Joe Bonamassa will be playing at the Boulder Blues this coming Friday, tomorrow. If you can go see him do it, hes a fine young artist. I saw him last night and will hopefully see him in a month in Malibu. I love his music a blend of rock and blues, heavy on the blues. Tell him Dusty said hello lol..<BR/><BR/>Take care sweetie ok? I heart you for this story, it took alot to post it I am sure.Hope it helped somewhat to tell us about it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06698117410778232102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133478283721968712005-12-01T15:04:00.000-08:002005-12-01T15:04:00.000-08:00Sorry that happened to you Martin. I can't even be...Sorry that happened to you Martin. I can't even begin to imagine the depth of conflicting emotions you feel over this.Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04767398015810855873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8699569.post-1133476155062253482005-12-01T14:29:00.000-08:002005-12-01T14:29:00.000-08:00That was absolutely beautiful. You know, maybe you...That was absolutely beautiful. You know, maybe you could check on them without necessarily uprooting him? <BR/><BR/>Take care of you, Sugar.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18074485959820689270noreply@blogger.com